And then I walked into the kitchen to make a cup of coffee.
And there they were. Taunting me. Staring me down. And all like, "Yeah, we're still here. And what?"
Damn you, dirty dishes!
So while my coffee was brewing and before taking a shower, I washed a sink full of dishes. From the meal that I cooked the night before. All the while
This led to a mild morning
In all fairness, The Husband is a pretty great guy. And he does help me. And The Husband would have washed the dishes - had I asked him too. And that's my problem. I don't ask him. I don't ask him for help until I'm annoyed that he hasn't helped me.
I am not the kind of person to ask for help when I need it. And even if help is offered, I don't take it. I always think that I can do things by myself. I take on too much. I don't know how to delegate - not that The Husband is one to be ordered around. But you know what I mean. For me, asking for help seems like a sign of weakness.
Because I'm a wife. A mother. My job is to do everything. And help everyone. It's what I'm supposed to do. Isn't it?
Um...no. Not really. It isn't.
Because I am not Wonder Woman. I am human. I cannot do it all. This year especially I've taken on a lot of extra responsibility - with The Boy's Turning 5 drama and all. So while I may have felt I was on my own. I really wasn't.
Yes, there were things that The Husband could not do or be a part of. Not because he didn't want to be, he just physically couldn't, due to the demands of his new job. But, there were a lot of things he could of helped with. I
And when you
Well, I've been strong for too long. And it's showing.
I am tired, frustrated, mentally and physically exhausted. Working full time, going to school and raising a child with special needs - is not easy. And maintaining our little abode. And signing The Boy up for therapies. Filling out paperwork, scheduling appointments. And on 4 to 5 hours of sleep a night. I need to stop pretending that this is normal. I need a break. I DO need help. And I do have someone willing to help me. If only I were to ask for help.
Unless, I pranced around in this little get up - then I wouldn't need to ask a thing. Dinner would be served and the dishes would be washed. But that's a whole other adults only post...
"Wishes won't wash dishes." ~ American Proverb
This post was inspired by a Kick in the Blog prompt: When was the last time you asked for help? When was the last time you should have asked and didn't?